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#IMWAYR April 5, 2021

Hello out there. It's #IMWAYR time again, when readers share what they have been reading and find out what others have been up to in the past week. Kathryn hosts the adult version of this meme at Book Date. Jen at Teach Mentor Texts and Kellee and Ricki at Unleashing Readers host the kidlit rendition. Whatever you are looking forward to in your next great read, these are fabulous places to start your search.


How are all your #MustReadIn2021 goals coming along? This year Leigh Anne Eck at A Day In the Life and I are taking over for Carrie Gelson at There's A Book For That. By April 23, I'll publish a page where you can post your Spring update. These updates are optional, but I have found they are a good way to keep on track.

My partner and I enjoyed a quiet anniversary dinner at home last week. We cooked together without any arguments. I guess that means that after 44 years we have almost got this marriage thing figured out. 

I haven't started back walking seriously yet, but I am spending a few hours everyday in the garden. I'm trying to get the vegetable patch weeded ASAP. My partner is itching to spread the trailer full of compost and rototill it in. I want to try and get the wild geranium and other unwanted plants somewhat under control first. If you have ever tried to manage wild geranium you will understand my frustration. It's even more persistent than creeping buttercup. The only thing I've ever dealt with that was more challenging than this was horsetail. Thankfully we don't have those here. 

Titles with a 🍁 indicate this is a Canadian or Indigenous Canadian Author and or Illustrator. 

Clicking on the title will take you to the Goodreads page of the book. 

BLOG POSTS FROM LAST WEEK

Tough Like Mom by Lana Button & Carmen Mok (Illustrator)

Rescue at Lake Wild by Terry Lynn Johnson

PICTURE BOOKS

5 stars

Tough Like Mom
by Lana Button & Carmen Mok (Illustrator) 
Apr 13, 2021
 🍁

In this picture book about the relationship between a girl and her single mom readers will come to ask, what does it mean to be tough?
Maybe it means that no matter how hard things are, you don't give up. Maybe it means that no matter how much you feel, you don't let the outside world know. I think it also means that when you love someone, you do what you need to do for them, even if it means asking for help.

5 stars

Ten Ways to Hear Snow
by Cathy Camper & Kenard Pak (Illustrator) 
Oct 13, 2020

A young Lebanese girl wakes up to a world of snow. As she heads off on her way to visit her almost blind Sitti to make warak enab, (stuffed grape leaves) she focuses on the different sounds the snow makes.
The book is full of rich descriptive language and stunning illustrations. As soon as I read "No garbage trucks gulped trash across the street," I knew this book was going to be special. It lived up to my expectations. I connected to the many different sounds of snow from the scraaape, scrip, scraaape, scrip of the shovels on sidewalk, to the still quiet as the 10th way to hear snow. It almost makes me long for winter.
The only thing wrong with this book is that it doesn't include a recipe for the warak enab. 


Thomas King gives us the Columbus story from the Indigenous perspective. It's both hilarious and horrific.


Just Wow!
I want to give more stars. I want this book to win more awards.
It's a love letter to a black child that ends up being a love letter to all BIPOC children. I want to share it with my two oldest grandkids. I'm especially thinking of my half Korean granddaughter living in an environment of rising Asian racism.
Bryan Collier's illustrations are as spectacular as always. I noted the quilt imagery while reading this and appreciated his note about his grandmother's quilting at the end.

NON FICTION PICTURE BOOKS

4 stars

A Voice Named Aretha
by Katheryn Russell-Brown, Laura Freeman (Illustrations) 
Jan 07, 2020

This is a gorgeously illustrated biography about the Queen of Soul. Laura Freeman's illustrations highlight her importance to the world of music. I appreciated the additional information in the back matter as well as the notes by the author and illustrator.

NOVELS


As satisfied as I was at the end of this, I went searching in hopes that their might be another book ready to read. Sunny and her friends are wonderful characters full of love for each other, even when they squabble. There's so much love in her family, especially since her parents have come to accept that she is part of the Leopard world. The world building is brilliant, although I did have a hard time dealing with all the spiders...


I can't decide if what I liked most about this book is the gentle love story, the acknowledgement of grief, the personal growth of the protagonist, or the descriptions of food. I loved reading about Lila Reyes' relationship with her abuela and her close knit Miami community. I only wish there was a list of recipes at the end of the book.


This book made me happy. It's been a while since I believed in so many literary characters in in one book. This story of a hostage taking is full of tenderness and humanity and humour. Ultimately it's about love in all its permutations.


The hair-raising rescue of two beaver kits grabs readers in the first few pages of this novel. The tension eases off, but the fascination with these little critters never ends.

NONFICTION


As soon as I finished listening to this book, I started it all over again. Then I decided to order a hard copy to keep and annotate.
Tanya Talaga looks at common themes that plague indigenous cultures from around the world. "From Northern Ontario to Nunavut, Norway, Brazil, Australia, and the United States, the Indigenous experience in colonized nations is startlingly similar and deeply disturbing." It is an ongoing assault on human rights and land ownership. The book is an analysis of policies that look the other way while extermination takes place. While Talaga examines historical issues, much of what she discusses is present day reality.
It's a hard read, but an immensely important one.
You can listen to it here as a collection of the Massey Lectures.

This is my second time reading Wintersmith. It's even better this time round. 
While at a secret Dark Morris dance, Tiffany ignores her mentor, Miss Treason, and ends up dancing with Winter. He gets in a muddle thinking she is Summer, and falls in love with her. In wooing her he creates snowflakes and icebergs in her image. The balance between the seasons goes off kilter as Winter prolongs his season. He brings on a blizzard that buries the mountains, the chalk and everything on it. Tiffany has some of the power of Summer. Strange things happen as plants sprout from her feet and the world turns green where she walks. Tiffany must fix the mess she has inadvertently created before everyone she knows and loves dies. Luckily she has Granny Weatherwax and the Nac Mac Feegles on her side. 

CURRENTLY 

This is what I currently have on the go:
Unseen Academicals by Terry Pratchett
The Sixth Extinction by Elizabeth Kolbert
The Rose Code by Kate Quinn

UP NEXT

My next audiobook will be The Game of Silence by Louise Erdrich,
I hope to get to The King of Jam Sandwiches by Eric Walters
I plan to read and review two Netgalley titles: On the Trapline by David A. Robertson, and Thao: A Picture Book by Thao Lam.

PROGRESS ON MY READING GOALS

#MustReadIn2021 7/25

#MustReadNFIn2021 3/12 one in progress

#MustReadPBIn2021 20/100

Books by Canadian Indigenous Authors 11/25

Books by Canadian Authors: 29/100

Canada Reads 2021 3/5 

Discworld Series 35/41 

Goodreads Reading Challenge: 126/333 

Tough Like Mom by Lana Button & Carmen Mok (Illustrator)

Thanks to NetGalley for the opportunity to read and review this book. It will be released April 13, 2021 by Tundra Books & Penguin Random House Canada.

What does it mean to be tough?

That's the focus of this book about a young girl and her mother. When she wakes up in the morning and her mom is still sleeping, the girl makes her own breakfast and lunch because she is tough like her mum.

She doesn't need to wear a hat in cold weather because she is tough like her mum.

Throughout the school day she hides her feelings - the good ones and bad - because she is tough like her mum.

When her teacher calls her over to talk about the field trip form and explains that her mom just has to check the box that says they can't afford to pay, she doesn't cry because she is tough like her mum. 

After school Mum doesn't seem to be having a good day. The daughter makes cold tomato soup that she shares with her. The two end up laughing and then when the mom sees the field trip form, she puts on her tough face, checks the box and signs the form. 

I'm still not sure what it means to be tough. Maybe it means that no matter how hard things are, you don't give up. Maybe it means that no matter how much you feel, you don't let the outside world know. I think it also means that when you love someone, you do what you need to do for them, even if it means asking for help. 

I couldn't find anything about how Carmen Mok created the art for this, but after watching some of her videos, it looks like she sketches ideas and uses water colour pencils and crayons. I appreciate how much her images add emotional nuance to the story. 

#IMWAYR September 28, 2020

Hello out there. It's #IMWAYR time again, when readers share what they have been reading and find out what others have been up to in the past week. Kathryn hosts the adult version of this meme at Book Date. Jen at Teach Mentor Texts and Kellee and Ricki at Unleashing Readers host the kidlit rendition. Whatever you are looking forward to in your next great read, these are fabulous places to start your search.


We enjoyed camping by the river last weekend even if it was cold in the mornings. I managed to read four books although I didn't listen to my audiobook at all. I am usually the kind of person who stays up till eleven, but my body adapted to the light so I was asleep by ten every night. The problem is that I was awake by six and it was still dark out. Our tent trailer does not have electricity so I just laid around in bed getting bored and anxious. We had a bit of rain but it was welcome as it cleaned out the air. 

The best part of being away was spending a couple of days in Vancouver with our children and grandkids and meeting our brand new granddaughter. The worst part is saying goodbye to them all.  Here is the newest in the sweater I made for her. 

Titles with a 🍁 indicate this is a Canadian Author and or Illustrator. 

Clicking on the title will take you to the Goodreads page of the book. 

RECENT BLOG POSTS 

The Barren Grounds (The Misewa Saga, #1) by David Alexander Robertson

Obsidian: A DreadfulWater Mystery by Thomas King

PICTURE BOOKS

5 stars

Nana Akua Goes to School
by Tricia Elam Walker & April Harrison (Illustrator)

Zura is worried that people will laugh at her Nana on Grandparents' day. But Nana Akua has a plan to circumvent any problems that might arrive. I love this because it's about the relationship between a grandchild and grandmother, it has a homemade quilt, and I learned about Adinkra symbols of the Akan people of Ghana. April Harrison's illustrations are beautifully rendered.


5 stars

An Ordinary Day
by Elana K. Arnold & Elizabet Vukovic (Illustrations)

OMG! This gorgeously illustrated book gave me shivers. On an ordinary day in a neighbourhood, two extraordinary events are taking place in two side by side houses. In the one, a family is saying goodbye to their beloved dog. In the other, a new baby is being welcomed.This is one of the most powerful and poignant books about the cycle of life I’ve ever read!

NON FICTION PICTURE BOOKS

5 stars

Paper Son: The Inspiring Story of Tyrus Wong, Immigrant and Artist
by Julie Leung & Chris Sasaki (Illustrations)

This beautiful book pays homage to Tyrus Wong, who came to the USA with his father under a false name. While not recognized for his contributions to art in his lifetime, “his story reminds us that immigrants, wanted or not, leave an essential mark on the masterpiece that is this nation.” If you have seen the Disney film, Bambi, then you have seen his work.
The book is a great introduction to what being a paper son means as it addresses the systemic racism of North America.
I know that Canada had its own racist policy limiting immigration from non-white countries through the head tax. After reading this book I discovered that Canada had its own paper son system.
You can learn more about it here

GRAPHIC NOVELS

4 stars

Power Up
by Kate Leth & Matt Cummings 🍁

This is a delightful romp. The universe has been waiting for prophecy to come true. When it does, it’s not exactly in the way present day interpreters expect. Three unassuming humans from diverse backgrounds suddenly find themselves imbued with magical powers and under attack from strange alien creatures.

4 stars


Constantly by GG 🍁

This is a dark and brooding, almost wordless graphic novel. It centers around a poem that addresses mental health issues. It's powerful and disturbing.

CHAPTER BOOKS

4 stars

Mindy Kim and the Yummy Seaweed Business 
(Mindy Kim #1) by Lyla Lee & Dung Ho (illustrator)

I liked this well enough. I had plans to read it to my half Korean granddaughter who is three, or at least purchase it for her, but won't be doing that. Maybe when she is older she will love Mindy, but for her now, the fact that Mindy's mom died, isn't something I would expose her to.
Mindy and her father have just moved to Florida from California and Mindy has the usual new school angst. She is the only Asian kid there and some of the other students make fun of her lunch until they try her seaweed. With the help of a new friend, Sally, Mindy ends up trading snacks with other kids and then selling it.
It turns out that this is against the school rules and Mindy, Sally, and the boy who told on them all end up in trouble.
Of course it all ends up fine in the end.

NOVELS 

4 stars

Clean Getaway
by Nic Stone & Dion Graham (Narrator)

After getting into some trouble at school, William (who is black) ends up on a road trip with his G'ma (Grandmother - who is white.) She's sold her house and purchased a motor home. The two of them end up following the same route she took with his black Grandfather during the 1960's. It's a lesson in the history of segregation for William at the same time as he comes to realize that his G'ma, is not the person he thought she was. 

4 stars

Monsters
by David A. Robertson 🍁

This is the second in Robertson's Reckoner series. In the first one, Strangers, Cole Harper finds a serial killer. As though that wasn't enough for a kid with anxiety issues, in this book there is some kind of monster in the woods. What is it exactly? The people call it “Upayokwitigo.” In Cree it means, He Who Lives Alone. If you know anything about tales of the Wendigo, you will have a sense of what this creature is. 

The ending just gobsmacked me. I've requested Ghosts, the last in the trilogy. 

4 stars

Forward Me Back to You
by Mitali Perkins

I really enjoyed this YA novel. It’s the story of three teens who travel with a church group to Kolkata. While they are there they support an organization that works to rescue child sex slaves.
The story is told from the perspectives of the two main characters, Ravi and Kat. Each is carrying a heavy load going in. Ravi wants to find his birth mother. Kat is recovering from an assault that happened at her high school. Gracie, their other friend, has come to Kolkata to get away from babies and to be with Ravi who she cares for.
By the time they return to Boston they are transformed into their own versions of superheroes. They are stronger physically and emotionally and have learned to be honest with each other.
I came to care deeply for all these characters. All of them, including the secondary individuals, are richly developed. I especially loved Mrs Vee and bet all readers will appreciate her advice about the golden rule.

4 stars

Indians on Vacation: A Novel
by Thomas King 🍁

An indigenous married couple, Bird and Mimi, are on vacation in Prague. A hundred years ago, Mimi's Uncle Leroy was forced to leave the reserve and join a wild west show. He took the family medicine bundle with him and it never returned. He sent home ten postcards from different countries in Europe. This is Mimi and Bird's tenth and last country searching for information about Uncle Leroy. On their travels, Bird and Mimi are creating a new medicine bundle.
Bird's demons, named by Mimi and her mother, are characters in the novel. Eugene represents self loathing, Kitty for catastrophizing, twins Didi and Desi are depression and despair, and there's Chip, for the one on Bird's shoulder. Told from Bird's perspective, it's a novel that wanders back and forth in time. Nothing's really resolved, but that's just how life is.
This is classic Thomas King in that it's both funny and not funny at the same time. I came away thinking about storytelling and wondering about truth. This is an adult novel.

5 stars

A Long Petal of the Sea
by Isabel Allende & Edoardo Ballerini (Narrator)

This is a family story that stretches across time and space. It begins in Spain during the time of the civil war. When Franco comes to power, they flee to France. From there they travel as refugees to Chili where they build a new life.
It's a story about survival, love, and hope. Roser, a pregnant young widow, marries her husband's brother, Victor, so that they can escape the refugee camp in France. It's hard to get my head around the fact that one family could endure so much hardship in their lifetime. This book is a reminder that democracy is a fragile construct that can, all too easily, be betrayed. 
This is an adult novel.

NONFICTION 

4 stars

Paying the Land
by Joe Sacco 

Joe Sacco is brilliant. In this book he set off to explore how resource extraction intersects with indigenous people. 
 He shows the reader a complex and complicated culture in the middle of conflict with Euro-Western values. Through the voices of the different people sharing their stories with him, he reveals how the Dene people have become colonized. What's different in this book is that unlike his other books, he didn't stay with Dene families. The people he interviews are mostly leaders. 
In the middle of it all, he acknowledges that he is one of the colonizers. 
He takes us back in time from what living on the land was like for the elders in the community, to the profound disruption of residential schools and its legacy, and into the modern conflict with petro-capitalism. It's important to note that it isn't that the Dene reject resource extraction - it's that they want to have control of whatever happens on their land. 
Paying the Land is about a different kind of war than the ones Sacco usually writes about. This is about a clash of world views. In the traditional Dene way of knowing the world the land owns them, they don’t own it. The Euro-Western perspective is shown thus.
The Dene face hard problems, and Sacco doesn't presume to have any answers. He introduces readers to young men and women who will one day take over leadership of their groups. They are doing what they can bit by bit. It won't be easy. 
I wonder about the fact that this is not an own voices story.  I’ve read other work by Sacco and have always been impressed by the quality of his journalism and storytelling. One of the reasons this book took four years to come to fruition is the time that was taken for Dene participants to preview and provide feedback on the pages that involved them. I would like to read an indigenous review of it and see what they think. 
This is an adult novel, but YA readers will get a lot from it. 

CURRENTLY 

I'm listening to 10 Things I Hate About Pinky by Sandhya Menon and reading Laura Dean Keeps Breaking up With Me by Mariko Tamaki. 

UP NEXT 

I'm planning on reading Dragon Hoops by Gene Luen Yang and Indian No More by Charlene Willing McManis. I've downloaded Claws of the Panda: Beijing's Campaign of Influence and Intimidation in Canada by Jonathan Manthorpe for a book club. I will see how it goes.  

PROGRESS ON MY READING GOALS 

Big Books Summer 2020 10/10  

#MustReadIn2020: 20/25 

#MustReadNFIn2020: 9/12 

Books by Canadian Indigenous Authors: 21/25

Books by Canadian Authors: 109/100 

Goodreads Reading Challenge: 263/333