Showing posts with label #Feminism. Show all posts
Showing posts with label #Feminism. Show all posts

First Friday Poetry May 2025

I'm joining Beverly A Baird & Linda Schueler again in a year long poetry practice. On the first Friday of each month we, and anyone else who joins, writes a poem and shares it. This year the focus is going to be on using poems to inspire us.

This month we are on our own to choose our own mentor text poem.

I recently read an article about Janis Ian's first song, written and recorded in 1965 when she was only 14. I had never heard of Society's Child until then. The song of hers that resonated most with me is At Seventeen. I'm using it for my inspiration this month.

When I was in grade ten, I went off to a Catholic Youth Conference one weekend, and returned home with Hepatitis A. While at home, too sick and exhausted to read, I listened to CBC radio's Cross Country Checkup with Peter Gzowsky. He was interviewing national and international feminists. It was a revelation for me. I experienced a paradigm shift in my world view and returned to my small town high school a very different person than the one I was before.


At Seventeen

I learned the truth at seventeen
That boys should never fill girls dreams
That equal rights and equal pay
Would prove to be the only way
To control our bodies and our minds
According to our own designs
It isn’t what it seems
At seventeen

My mother’s life made clear to me
that a husband and a family
Was no guarantee
of equanimity
that education was the key
to choice and opportunity
it was clear to me
at seventeen

Those of us who dared to venture
Into a new kind of future
Someday, if we found love true
there never would be payment due
for independent girls like me and you
Life's different than it seems
At seventeen

Decades have past and much has changed
We’ve lost much that we once gained.
I ache for girls still in their teens
And hope that boys don’t fill their dreams
It isn’t all it seems
At seventeen


Here's Janice Ian singing her Grammy award winning song. 

#IMWAYR April 14, 2025

Welcome! It's #IMWAYR time again, when bloggers share what they have been reading and find out what others have been up to. Kathryn hosts the adult version of this meme at Book Date. Kellee and Ricki at Unleashing Readers host the kidlit rendition. I'm also connecting up with the Sunday Salon. These are fabulous places to start your search for what to read next.


I've been sewing up a storm and managed to finsh my granddaughter's birthday dress. She came up with the design, and when she was last here, picked the dark blue patterned fabric. Here's what I've come up with. I'll send it, along with a little capybara wall hanging, off to her later this week. 

front

back

The original design:
some day I will recreate this. 

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This book is a celebration of who and what a baby could someday become, as well as a reminder of how perfect they already are. This is an important message for all of us, no matter our ages. 
I might purchase this for someone I know who is expecting a baby. 
Shar Tuiasoa's art work is gorgeous! I wanted to dig out my scraps and embroidery floss to try and recreate it in fabric!

Piper loves to sing. She sings everywhere and all the time. She especially enjoys singing in her school choir, but when she is asked to sing a solo, she ends up getting anxious and feeling butterflies in her tummy. 
At home she talks to Nai Nai, her grandmother, about her feelings. Nai Nai helps her change the way she thinks about those butterflies and instead of fearing them, learns to see them as a reminder that something exciting is about to happen. 
I love a lot about this book. First, I adore Qin Leng's illustrations. I love Piper's relationship with her grandmother. I love that they are both musically creative and that it's who Piper goes to for help. I love that while Nai Nai tells Piper about her butterflies, we also get a glimpse into her background story. The music teacher, Mr Harris, is pretty cool too when he tells Piper she can sing with the rest of the class instead of soloing if that's what she wants.  
I wish this book had been around when I was still teaching. It's a great resource for students like Piper who get anxious when they have to do anything in front of a crowd. 

GRAPHIC NOVELS


Momo lives in Town 99. Her favourite restaurant is Noodle and Bau. Bau is also her best friend. When the building is sold and they are evicted, they struggle to make ends meet by selling their food from a cart parked across from their former restaurant. It now houses a high end cafe run by Ms. Jujube. None of the residents of Town 99 could afford to eat there.
Momo is determined to help Noodle and Bau get their restaurant back. Meanwhile, the community is changing. Rent is increasing, people are moving out, and new shiny shops are moving in. Even Momo's parents are having trouble dealing with the high cost of housing. 
At one point in the story, it looks like Noodle and Bau will succeed at getting their place back, but it turns out that Ms. Jujube has plans that will destroy their community even more.
Momo is determined to do everything to save their neighbourhood and stop the gentrification. She starts out working on her own, but it isn't until the whole community gets involved, that they can be successful. The importance of collective effort is a message we need now more than ever. 
Town 99 is populated by a collection of human and anthropomorphized animals. I thought they might represent the diversity of the population, but am not sure since Momo, who is shown as human, has two animal parents. Perhaps the animal people represent first generation immigrants and the more human looking ones are those who were born there.  Even the text, written in both English and Cantonese characters, highlights the complexity of the residents.  I was fascinated by the character of Ms. Jujube. On the one hand, she seems to be evil incarnate, but on the other, she is very supportive of Bau, and even pays for him to go to cooking school. 
If you want to read a much more thorough and considered review of this book, I encourage you to check out Max @ Completely Full Bookshelf's post from last week. 
 
ADULT NON FICTION


Joan Didion was the same age as my mother. I've been a fan ever since reading The Year of Magical Thinking. It helped me understand what my mother's life was like after my father died. I had never even heard of Eve Babitz until this book. 
When Babitz died, a box of her letters was discovered. This book, chronicling Eve's perspective of her relationship with Joan, as wall as many other aspects of her life, arose from them. 
I really enjoyed this book. A number of reviewers on Goodreads complained that the book was all gossip. I believe that our lives are made up of all kinds of stories and this book highlights the glory of these little vignettes. 
In many ways the two women seem to be competing opposites, but I agree with the author, that they are more like two sides of the same coin. "Yes their sensibilities were polarized, their styles clashing, their intentions though, were identical, to make literature that exploited what was novel and expose what was familiar in a city, a society, and an epic under convulsive pressure. Joan and Eve are the two halves of American womanhood representing forces that are, on the surface, in conflict, yet secretly align."

CURRENTLY 

Hell and Gone by Sam Wiebe October 23, 2021 🍁

The Killing Moon by N.K. Jemisin May 1, 2012

Fantastic Lou: Little Comics from Real Life by Qin Leng January 28, 2025 🍁

UP NEXT (MAYBE)

The Teller of Small Fortunes by Julie Leong November 5, 2024

A Two Spirit Journey by Ma-Nee Chacaby & Mary Louisa Plummer May 3, 2016 🍁

2025 READING GOALS

#MustRead2025 10/25  one on the go

NonFiction 14/30

Poetry 1/12 

Canadian Authors 24/50  two on the go

Indigenous Authors 6/25

Goodreads Reading Challenge: 54/200

#IMWAYR November 4th, 2024

Welcome! It's #IMWAYR time again, when bloggers share what they have been reading and find out what others have been up to. Kathryn hosts the adult version of this meme at Book Date. Kellee and Ricki at Unleashing Readers host the kidlit rendition. These are fabulous places to start your search for what to read next!

Even here in Canada we wait anxiously for the outcome of the election in the United States on Tuesday. Good Luck you all! 

Our recent election here was a tight race between the Conservative Party: very right wing, and the New Democratic Party (NDP): middle of the road, but more to the left than the Democrats in the USA. After waiting for all the ballots to be counted and a number of recounts, the NDP squeaked in with a bare minority.

Titles with a 🍁 indicate this is a Canadian or Indigenous Canadian Author and or Illustrator.
Clicking on the title will take you to the Goodreads page of the book.

I liked this. I wasn't sure at first, but it didn't take long to get into it. It's based on Misty Wilson's experience playing football in grade seven. There is the usual misogyny from some of the players at first, but then almost all of them come to accept and support her. I appreciated that I learned a lot about football as I read this. (I'm  not ready to watch it on TV with my partner yet though.) 
I especially liked that there is so much more going on than just football. It addresses the usual friend meltdowns all too common in middle grade. Life at home is chaotic because her mother is coping with young twins. In the end Misty comes to understand that she needs to be herself and contribute to her family.
I enjoyed reading Misty Wilson's notes at the end of the book. 

MG NOVELS IN VERSE

4 stars

Red Bird Danced
by Dawn Quigley June 4, 2024

Two urban indigenous youth, Ariel and Tomah, end up going through some intense changes in their lives and connect with their roots in their own way.
They live in an intertribal housing complex in the city. Ariel has to give up ballet because her family can't afford the fees. When she starts fancy dancing she finds a more profound joy and connection to her history and the world around her than she ever did with ballet. Tomah is a comedian and story teller. He's mostly a good student, but has some kind of reading problems. After his teacher starts working with him one on one, he begins to make sense of text and is able to write one of his one stories.
All this takes place against the backdrop of Ariel's Auntie Bineshiinh going missing. 
I listened to this, but I suspect that while I was engaged with the story of these two children, I would have gotten more out of it had I read it with my eyes. Poetry is like that. 
 
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ADULT/YA FICTION


I had no idea what I was getting into with this book. It ended up being a magnificently delightful concoction of genres. I adored it.
We never learn the narrators name, but she is, like the author herself, half British and half Cambodian. At the start, she finishes her last interview and lands a civil service job working as a 'bridge': a live in companion to an expat. She ends up with Commander Graham Gore, who supposedly died on the Franklin Expedition in 1840. He and other similar individuals have been kidnapped from their own times and brought unwilling into a time somewhere in our not too distant future. 
The romance part of this seems pretty inevitable. Eventually there are some pretty steamy lovemaking scenes. But before we get to that, a whole lot more is going on that involves, humour, murder, more time travel, spies, and even a historical narrative by a separate character. It addresses issues of morality, colonialism, racism, misogyny, climate disaster, and PTSD. 
I was very surprised at the ending, but it was all pure pleasure to read. 

ADULT/YA NON FICTION


I will read anything Ross Gay writes. This one required more focus than I needed with his Delight books. These essays are deeper and more intricate. They are filled with an intimacy that's complicatedly human. Some parts, like when he talks about the culture of basketball and what a toxic prison it was, were hard to take in. My main take away from this collection is that sorrow and joy can be two sides of the same coin, especially when sorrow becomes a vehicle that brings us together. Joy is incited in our connectedness with the humanity in others, with ourselves, and with nature. 
"Joy is an act of resistance."
I didn't want this book to end - and yet it did. I tried savouring it, but I still wanted to start all over  again after I finished. I think I would have taken much more from it. Unfortunately, the library took it back.

CURRENTLY 

A Poetry Handbook by Mary Oliver January 1, 1994

Cougar Annie's Garden by Margaret Horsfield August 1, 1999 🍁

The Sherlock Society by James Ponti September 3, 2024

UP NEXT (MAYBE)

What Time the Sexton's Spade Doth Rust by Alan Bradley September 3, 2024 🍁

real ones by Katherena Vermette September 3, 2024 🍁

Besties: Work It Out by Kayla Miller

READING GOALS 

#MustRead2024 17/25 one on the go

NonFiction 31/24 one on the go

Canadian Authors 62/50 one on the go

Indigenous Authors 28/25 

Goodreads Reading Challenge: 184/200